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karlicookie
exoticdancer
karlicookie
hey girls thanks for the advice on that ad, I got a hold of Craig from Craigslist and he is going to try to remove it. =) Craig is so great
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trenthamfamily
exoticdancer
trenthamfamily
And this is the best place to ask I suppose!

:)

I am looking for a place that sells slings/slingshots. I'm not a great body type and T's just look ick on me right now so I'm searching for a slingshot!

The only way I can describe this is it's a T but the sides that would go over your hips like undies are really long and criss cross in many ways to X over your back and down your sides. Bah, I'm bad at this. Anyways, does anyone know what I'm talking about? They were around a few years back.
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tinypanda
exoticdancer
tinypanda
I just finished reading strip city. I liked it very much and would encourage anyone to go out there and read it. It gave me such mixed feelings, but I have more certainty I know what I'm up against. There is only a month left before I will be fully ready.
I had previously picked the name ginger, but it sounds too common. Ana-belle sounds slightly southern and (I think) very sweet and girly.
I am going to define myself and create an alter ego. I want to use no details of my actual life. Everything in the club is going to be a big huge fake, interesting lie, involving lots of hot air balloons and wild horses :)
I can't stop thinking about it and I'm doing alot of research.
I wonder if there are any others who've obsessed with the decision to dance as I am?
and have you noticed that most stripclubs have really shitty websites?
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trenthamfamily
exoticdancer
trenthamfamily
Does anyone in this community work in or around Dallas Texas?

I'm thinking about getting into waitressing until I'm ready to go back and dance...we kind of need the finances right now and instead of getting some minimum wage part time job, this might work better.
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exoticdancer
palourde
ew. Midnight..and Destiny is very typical. Then there's the chick at my club named Portia which is ok enough but she just had a baby & named it Portia.. I dont know really, I'm desensitized to protocol after working in the industry, but I wonder how the outside world would see that? Is it kind of Springer-ish? would you feel funny when you were all grown-up knowing your mother named you after her stripper name? hehehe its sort of funny.

and "Curly"
Okay, this wouldn't be so bad maybe, except that this girl had very
curly hair.
???
It is as stupid as calling yourself "Blond" (unless you're not) or
"Curvy" or something.

My best friend is a Bambi :) One of the bargirls who "crossed over" was
going to call herself Thumper but they didn't end up having that
haggling chemistry some girls have. She was also going to call herself
"Really" for some reason. Headfucks, i guess.
"Really"
"Really?"
"Yeah. Really."
etc.,
Bambi is a pretty typical name I guess (second only to Candy!..shudder)
but it was derived from her actual name (Amber, Ambi, Bambi, Bamber..)
during high school so it doesn't seem so bad. is the cutest little
bunny who does all her poletricks in rollerskates and she's probably the
only girl in our club who can get away with falling off the stage during
passion parade and not look tragic! She was just in a new magazine too,
http://www.platinumgirls.com.au/models.php
if you go perve on her you should vote for her while yr there! She'll
win $25000

Hmm more bad names...
I worked on bar and everybody got really confused because there was
this dancer named Bailey who looks very similar to me so everybody planned
for me to call myself Milk so we could do double shows but. No.
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kristy_chan
exoticdancer
kristy_chan
I am dancing at this new club in Kentucky. (I've been dancing for two years.) It's the sister club of the last one I worked at. The inside of the club is nicer looking, like it's well taken care of and clean. The stage is very large with TWO (yeah!) taller-than-average poles.

I only did 2 lap dances, since this club is more of a coctail club. This one customer who got one kept trying to force me to rub on his dick, so I yelled at him, "Stop it!" "Shut up!" It was so funny. He probably had a Napoleon complex or something, since my shoes make me 6'1". I made around $140, mostly off drinks.

The pay structure here is completely foreign from most clubs. The club keeps $5 off every dance, and half of the money from drinks, which start out at $20. If they make $250 off me (their half, meaning I hustled $500) for the week, I get $100 bonus. There's $50 extra bonus for every additional $250 they make off me. There is NO house, DJ, bouncer fees. I get to keep all of my tips. It's sort of confusing, but I think it will work out okay. It's almost a relief to me, at this point, to do less couch dances, just because I'm sick of grabby customers. I'm sick of how they act like little cry babies when you tell them to stop touching. It's like I'm their whore and their mom, all at the same time. BLEAH.

So, yesterday was my first day, and I ended up being completely shit-faced, since I can't drink that heavily. Next time I work, I need them to cut my drinks with alot of water or something.
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exoticdancer
mamasita302
does anyone know of a good Bellydancing video/DVD? i hear they're great.

I am: awake awake

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kittyspears
exoticdancer
kittyspears
I was really surprised Thursday night. it was my first night dancing ever and I made $300. all the other girls did really bad. One girl left with $5, some with $20. A lot of them are saying I am just a natural. So after tip out I made $260, and my house was free the 1st night.

2nd night I only made $175 after tip out. i was kind of bummed since I did so good on my first night.

So last night there wasn't a lot of big spenders in club. Mostly a lot of foreigners. A group of japanese guys who didn't speak english. I got 1 dance from one of them. He couldn't count american money and gave me $40 for 1 dance! haha

But honestly I don't like guys feeling me up, and if I don't let them they get upset. They also enjoy sucking on my breasts and I HATE THAT. It's also against the rules to do so. i noticed the other girls don't have problems with being felt up or being sucked on.

One guy actually asked me what he could and couldn't do, so I said, "sit back, relax is all you have to do." He goes "I want to suck on your nipples" I told him it was against the rules and he decided to leave. So basically I thought I was making another $25 and he took off. Anyway, does anyone think it would be a good idea to charge people maybe $5 just for taking them to the VIP room? It sucks that I give so many dirty old men my time and they don't even tip me for my time, WHICH IS WORK!

tips advice? please...thanks.
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trenthamfamily
exoticdancer
trenthamfamily
I got the Exotic Dancer's Handbook from Fawnia's website for $4.95 today in my Inbox and IMO it has some really good tips in it! Things I wouldn't have thought about doing.

Just a suggestion but spending the $4.95 is a pretty good idea for anyone wanting tips and ideas for dancing either for someone new or experienced.

Next step is getting her 2nd video (I don't *think* I need the pole one just yet)
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mstangledwebs
exoticdancer
mstangledwebs
Greetings, I am new to this community, but not to dancing. I danced for about 4 months, and Loved everything about it. there is nothing quite like the feeling of being onstage, the movement, the music and of course, the power, lol. Unfortunately, my husband was a graduate student and with a then 2 year old child at home, the hours became too difficult to keep up. I stayed in touch with many of the girls from my club and when I started doing some sewing from my home, I became somewhat of the costume mistress for many of them. As my business has grown I have considered posting items online to sell as well, I am wondering if anyone in this community is interested in seeing some of my products, everything I make is unique and well made (I am actually professional with my quality, better than many of the things you will find in catalogues). I also do corsetry for those who are interested, I produce those mostly for our local gothic community, but they are also great for burlesque shows and other fun play ;) . Please post if anyone is interested in seeing pics of my wares, THanks for your input!

I am: hopeful hopeful

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sharz
exoticdancer
sharz
has anyone here had any? and would they recommend me getting one? or too much pain and hassle with infections and the like....
and just another question.....does anything own back-belly chains and where did they get them from? i'm trying to find a nice one.
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kittyspears
exoticdancer
kittyspears
So I checked out stripclublist.com and went to the club of my choice. It was really nice, the girls were nice, and I felt really welcome. The manager was great and just said "You are in great shape, so I'm hiring you." hahaha:)

So thanks everyone for your help. I'm going back tonight to watch the other girls.

Also did anyone else have to get a license to dance? Before I can start I have to get a license. So just wondering.

I am: pleased pleased

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exoticdancer
mamasita302
does anyone in here do escorting? if so, i'm trying to decide if i should remain an independent or join an agency..any opinions?

I am: curious curious

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